Think about a candy store with all the flavors right in front of your sparkling eyes. Full of excitement we want to try them all, one for one, candy by candy, desire by desire. Doesn’t that make you question why a large portion of society sees sex work as one flavor? And why is the storefront seen as all the same, owned by a broken family or a history of trauma? Are we failing to distinguish between various forms of business and pleasure? Or does one’s boyfriend or – girlfriend experience fulfill different needs than a dominatrix does? Challenge your mind and think about the candy store metaphor while reading the perspective of somebody who has seen the differences, and even felt them at times. Keep your mind open and fill your pallet of curiosity. Be part of a world that fulfills desires as far as the eye can see, only if you allow it to, professionally and personally.

Companions that fulfill intimate desires are chameleons, why? Imagine this; you are in a room with a couple, and both of them have a completely different desire. Somehow you must find a balance in satisfying them together, and individually. You could also call it the art of making somebody feel seen and special, as a couple that is ‘’normal’’ yet with fantasies they wouldn’t speak up about when nobody is watching. Reading this might provoke the thought ‘’how would you satisfy is this complex dynamic? The answer is simple; be a chameleon.

Just 5 minutes before midnight, and a couple cocktails later one of my friends said; ‘’Sex heals.’’ The comment was very thought provoking, not only for me, but also for my other three friends. Soon enough we shared our experiences, thoughts and conclusions. There was something in the air that night, a flash of inspiration, one that I’d be happy to analyze and share, or perhaps even experiment. Be prepared to drop your ice-cube on the floor as Dalis did when she heard my point of view, but most of all; be open to challenge your mind and know that my personal view on the topic lays in my late-night escapades, romantic dates and open conversations.

How does one conclude following a path as I did? Perhaps some would describe it as "going down the rabbit hole." You might ask yourself: Was this idea of becoming an escort brought upon by a deep insight, or a small idea seen in a show or read in a book? Or was it the influence of my surroundings? The truth is that it started with a combination of factors, all small, leading to a bigger outcome.

Breaking through personal and professional boundaries, Jake Dean, a high-class male escort with a preference for men, delves into uncharted territory. His first encounter with a woman unfolds as a transformative experience, challenging preconceived notions and showcasing the fluidity of sexual liberation. In the aftermath, the couple's enthusiastic desire for an encore highlights the unexpected joys found in breaking down barriers.